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title: "How Writing Your Dating App Bio With Open-ended Language Builds Intrigue and Attraction"
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date: 2025-01-14
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# How Writing Your Dating App Bio With Open-ended Language Builds Intrigue and Attraction

Your dating app bio is just as important as your opening line, if not more. Of course, that’s assuming the other person has taken the time to read it, and if not, you don’t want to match with a potentially superficial individual, anyway. On the subject of opening lines, people are always intrigued when they get questions specific to their profile. They show the person has looked past the pictures and is genuinely interested in the text information the app user has shared. 

Women will respond to men who are sincerely nice, but that excludes ones who make a point of it. They are intrigued by guys who share details about their lives and passions immediately.  

A female Tinder user shares the most memorable opening line. A guy asked, “Corny pick-up line, gif, or asking you out?” When she replied, “All of them,” he proceeded to do just that. 

Just like [Tinder opening lines](https://www.sugardaddy.com/blog/30-great-tinder-openers-to-use-in-2024) such has “What is one secret thing you do when no one is around” are more effective when they’re thoughtful, open-ended language in dating app bios is more likely to provoke interest than cookie-cutter phrases.  

## Adventurer at heart, seeking my next great story

This is a great example of open-ended language in a bio. A survey commissioned by Match.com revealed that 85% of dating app users believed a sense of adventure made someone extremely attractive. Neuroscience backs up these findings. Novelty triggers the brain’s dopamine system to make people feel focused, alert, optimistic, energetic, and often romantic, making a sense of adventure a powerful aphrodisiac.

Another major dating site surveyed close to 900 adults in Australia about their turn-ons and turn-offs. Respondents overwhelmingly pointed to a strong correlation between adventurous behavior and perceived attractiveness. Singles voted “daring travelers” as the most appealing of all potential partners. 

## Travel goals: exploring hidden gems. Any suggestions?

Travel gives stories, which are intriguing. While the extent of that [depends on the stories and how someone tells them](https://www.npr.org/2022/04/26/1094947453/how-to-tell-a-good-story), just having a story is a good start. Many people have very little to say, let alone a real narrative. Even very well-traveled people love to hear and tell stories of distant places. Sitting down and sharing news from elsewhere is a basic human impulse. The more glamorous and unfamiliar the news, the better. 

A tan out of season is undoubtedly attractive. What’s even more attractive is the inner glow of a healthy, satisfied person who has recently been to a fascinating place, seen amazing things, and done something exciting.  

## Coffee enthusiast who loves a deep conversation over a good brew

The “deep conversation” aspect alone can create attraction, even among those who’d rather drink tea. People often opt for small talk with strangers because they think others might not be interested in their lives. Many labor under the misconception that deep conversations will be less pleasant and more awkward than they actually are, [research published by the American Psychological Association](https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2021/09/deep-conversations-strangers) reveals. Researchers asked more than 1,800 participants to discuss either shallow or relatively deep topics. Both deep and shallow conversations were more enjoyable and less awkward than the participants had anticipated, but the effect was more pronounced for deep conversations. Those who were assigned deep topics of discussion overestimated the awkwardness of the conversation far more than the ones who discussed shallow topics.   

## Final thoughts 

Bios with open-ended prompts intrigue potential matches and invite them to engage, sparking potentially meaningful connections. According to data from Tinder, women swipe on 5-10% of men on average, but men swipe on 50-70% of women. While open-ended bio language can be helpful for men and women, it is especially beneficial to men’s prospects in 2024 and beyond.