We asked our regular contributors through e-mail What are good reasons to live? We got many interesting responses. Here are some of them. We have just copied and pasted their responses, not editing them in any way.

1. Because the 22 of February 2022 is 22/2/22 and it is also a Tuesday, meaning we can call it twosday.

– mystic_dragon218

2. You can literally just make garlic bread any time you want.

– Rootkit9208

3. If you have pets- they’ll never understand why you left.

– BigBerthaCavalry

4. I dont have reasons to live I only have reasons to not die.

Despite how similar those sound they are different, and most people who are content with their lives won’t be able to make the distinction.

– CarelessRook

5.  Self-talk: I was intensely, harshly critical of myself. One day I realized that I would never talk to another person like that, so why should I talk to myself that way? I made the decision to treat myself as though I was a friend who had the same issues. I would treat myself kindly with compassion, and allow myself to be imperfect (even very imperfect.) This is very important: I decided to make a point of noticing what I did right, well, and good in the same way I’d focused exclusively on what I did wrong before. It’s important especially for someone in or coming out of depression to see and admit to themselves that yes, they do things right, too. It doesn’t matter how tiny or “inconsequential” the action is. Did you brush your teeth today? Nice, you brushed your teeth today. Fair warning: This change in behavior will likely feel fake as hell at first, and will continue feeling fake as hell for a long time. It’s normal for a behavior pattern you aren’t in the habit of to feel fake, but that doesn’t mean it is fake; it’s just an unfamiliar pattern. As the pattern becomes familiar, the feeling of fakeness will fade.

The other thing was that I realized when you are depressed, you naturally tend to focus on what’s bad and wrong in life. You don’t even notice the good stuff, even though it’s still there. If you go long enough noticing only bad things while being oblivious to the good, it can legitimately get to a point where it really, genuinely feels to you like only bad things exist for you and that good stuff doesn’t even exist at all. Therefore, I made a deliberate point of noticing what’s right and good in life. There’s a roof over my head tonight and I have a warm, dry, comfortable bed to sleep in; I have my health; I can have pretty much anything I want for dinner; I am incredibly lucky to live in that incredibly tiny fraction of all of human history that the internet exists; it’s a lovely day out today; I lost a couple more pounds; I really do have exceptionally awesome landlords; I was really kind to that person; I got the dishes done today, etc. Fair warning: This is another thing that’s going to feel fake as hell for a long time until you get into the habit of it. Expect it, it’s normal and fine. I pushed through the fake feeling and it made a life-changing difference for me that I did.

One more thing: Let it be genuinely OK for yourself to make mistakes. Old habits and thought patterns can have a lot of inertia to them. Depressed people are still people, and people are just human beings, which means they will make mistakes. If you can let it be genuinely OK to be a human being who makes mistakes just like anyone else does (don’t beat up on yourself for making them! just shrug, let it roll off your back, and carry on) you will have a much easier time of all of this on those days you find old habits creeping back again.

– Mirenithil

6. Honestly? I just want to ride it out and see what happens. Us humans are so entertaining. One minute we’re blowing each other up, the next we have pet rocks or something.

– tittysprinkles112

7. So you can say to the person mugging you and threatening to kill you “What makes you think I have money? Or a will to live”.

– plasmapup959

8. “We’re all lights in the darkness for one another. When one light goes out, it makes it that much more dark for the rest of us. The human eye can see a single candle from four miles away. You never know when your light is the only light someone can see.”

– Locke632

9. If you quit now you won’t get to play the futuristic video games we’ll actually have the technology to make 99% immersive!!

– CrunchyBonesDaddy

10. To live to the day 4/20/69 happens.

– BiggChunga

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Last Update: July 25, 2019